The model of Advanced Relationship Mastery that we teach includes: The Advanced Relationship Blueprint (the Map), The P.O.E.T Process (the Process), The Access Points (The points of change opportunity), The Dynamic of Struggle & Harmony (relational imbalance vs. relational integration), The 5 Stages Of Creation (the context for application), The Skills (the tools & techniques), and Accountability (coaching and/or practice partners).
We want to understand your unique Relationship Challenges & Strengths. While we have a very specific model we use for coaching clients, this model is always customized to fit your unique situation.
THE ADVANCED RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT:
A map from which you can identify two Relationship Positions...Traditional Relationship & Advanced Relationship. This includes looking at how you relate to yourself as well as how you relate to others, esp. to a Primary Partner.
A Traditional Relationship includes demands, obligations, passivity, pretending, avoidance, aggression, compromise, competition, scorekeeping, burying things, authority, & seeing a loved one as someone that can hold you back, and therefore needs to be "fixed," "changed," or "controlled."
Advanced Relationship includes passion, compassion, radical honesty & extreme ownership, real alignment, requests, knowing & honoring needs, respect, expansion & deepening, seeing all of your loved ones as allies, & cooperative/collaborative conversation.
The Advanced Relationship Blueprint will help you identify where you are in any given moment.
THE P.O.E.T PROCESS:
The Four Essential Steps for moving from Traditional Relationship to Empowered Relationship.
THE FOUR ACCESS POINTS:
No matter how Advanced you become, and no matter how much you grow, you will always have your limits. The Four Access Points are the four doorways through which you can apply the P.O.E.T Process to continually grow your capacity when you bump up against your current relational and limits.
THE DYNAMIC OF STRUGGLE AND HARMONY - THE POLARITIES
How harmonizing the opposites will be the difference between relational struggle & relational ease.
THE 5 STAGES OF CREATION
The POET Process (described above) is applied to relationship in two ways. It is applied during moments of being "in" an experience. When something "good" or "bad" is happening to you...and there is a "positive" or "negative" charge. It is also applied during moments of creation. When you are consciously creating a specific outcome.
The 5 Stages of Creation are the steps you can use to consciously create a desired outcome.
THE SKILLS:
All of the different tools & techniques that are applied to the sections above.
ACCOUNTABILITY:
Coaching &/or Accountability partners to keep you focused and on track with practicing the skills & creating what you want.
