THREE BOUNDARY MYTHS, And How To Use Boundaries In A Way That ACTUALLY WORKS!
Have you ever wondered why setting boundaries in your relationships isn't working?!...These are some of the phrases that I hear with clients and listeners...
- "They're not respecting my boundaries."
- "I shouldn't need to set a boundary like that with (fill-in-the-blank...my husband, daughter, mom, dad, goldfish...they should already know not to do that).
- "So-and-so is crossing my boundaries."
- "My parents used to use boundaries to control me."
These phrases all signify that we don't actually understand what a boundary is. While we're told that we should use boundaries in our relationships...very few of us are actually taught the TRUTH about boundaries, or modeled effective boundary setting.
In today's episode we will talk all about the TRUTH! I'm so glad you're here :)!