The Struggle of The MASCULINE Man and FEMININE Woman...
Our culture often uses masculinity and femininity as the butt of a joke in our relationship talk. But...what is the truth about "masculine" men, and "feminine" women?
In today's episode, Bryce and Jenny talk about how the imbalanced Masculine and imbalanced Feminine can show up in your relationship struggles! They discuss how these imbalances show up in their own relationship, and share ideas for how you can turn these struggles into an opportunity for greater balance within yourself, and more harmony in your relationship.
Bryce gives you a quick, 15-minute, jump start to help you fix any disagreement with someone in your life. No matter if it is big or small, this will allow you get out of your head and on a path to make things feel better. Because we can't coach everyone all the time, we want to give you a little slice of our process that anyone can access at any time, for free! This episode is all about jumping right into the solution and it's meant to meet you right where you're at. By giving you some space to relax, clarify your story, feel the emotion, and shift perspective, you will experience more freedom, more ease, and more understanding. This isn't some magical cure or dumb thought experiment. This is about dealing with real stuff, real stress, and experiencing real results. And, if you're not in a disagreement at the moment, this podcast will give you some real tools to think about and digest for the next time something comes along. Enjoy!
It's normal to find yourself in circular arguments with your partner or for one of you to take things just a little bit too far. Even though the issue may be small or the interaction brief, sometimes the damage can last for a LONG time. You may start to think that you two will never figure out how to work through these silly disagreements, let alone the big stuff. However, by creating some context, inquiry, and tactfulness into your conversations, you can avoid so much of the disconnect that causes unnecessary pain.
In this episode, Bryce and Jenny speak to 5 measurements that help keep communication healthy and effective. By asking ourselves and each other about our intentions, our experience, and our goals, we are able to have way smoother disagreements and not get caught in "circular arguing". Not only are we able to reach a place that feels good for both people, we are also able to do in a ways that avoid causing more harm.
With each Pillar comes a question. If we aren't playing the same game or for the same reasons, then we are bound to struggle. This is a new paradigm in connecting in which we strive to bring all the part of us and our experience to the table. It's possible to shift little disagreements into play, bigger fights into healing moments, and it allows us space to tackle the big stuff while honoring who we are and what we truly want for our partners. This is the stuff that you didn't learn in school.
Why You SHOULD Question Your
Today I talk about one of the most important topics in understanding the power of relationships...polarity. I share the secret power of the Negative!...and why both positive and negative aspects must be maintained to channel the current of connection.
I will give you a tool to use when you're feeling a negative feeling, or thinking a negative thought so that you NEVER need to pretend, ignore the negative, or "just think positive" again.
(*Note: If you want to learn more about an electrical current, this is the page I cite in this podcast: https://learn.sparkfun.com/tutorials/what-is-a-circuit).
WHAT IS AN ADVANCED RELATIONSHIP?...
THE WEDDING :)!